Showing posts with label parenthood. Show all posts
Showing posts with label parenthood. Show all posts

11.12.2011

6:38 AM Posted by nick mucci , , , , 1 comment
so we headed out to Costco.  it was pouring here, the temperature had dropped and it felt like we were deep into our Portland fall. cold and rainy.  everyone was in a good mood, the boys sang almost the whole way there...well, Dom sang.  Eli had dropped his toy and i was able to reach back and grab it. Mandy asked Eli if I was his hero and Eli said yes.  Soon Dom said, 'He's my hero too!!'  Then he broke out into song, 'Heroes, heroes, heroes, they are brave.  Heroes, heroes, heroes, they are brave. Heroes, heroes, heroes, they are brave.  Heroes, heroes, heroes, they are brave.'  After about 5 minutes of that, Eli asked Dom if the song was over.  Dom's response...'Heroes, heroes, heroes, they are brave.  Heroes, heroes, heroes, they are brave....'

i love my kids. they are getting so big, becoming sponges too...Dom is constantly asking about the meaning of words and phrases.  its wonderful.

so, back to Costco.  i'm driving around the parking lot (not fun at 5:30 on a Friday night) and i'm lucky enough to find someone about to pull out from the second spot to the front.  with 2 toddlers and one infant...its nice to be able to get out of the rain and have less puddles to drag the boys away from.  so i stop, put my clicker on and wait for the person to pull out.

and thats when it happens, some 50 something dude stops watches the person pull out, sees me there, and zips his lil beat up station wagon right into the spot.  as the boys would say, this is when mean Daddy came out.

"ARE YOU SERIOUS?!"  I pull up behind his car, stop mine...roll down Mandy's window (to her horror) and I wait.  the dude just sits in the car, probably terrified...i think; at least part of me hoped so.

Mandy looks at me and says, 'Set a good example right now.'  I don't budge.  'What are you going to say to him?' she asks.

"I'm going to tell him what a jerk he is!"  I declare.

"Haha...you're going to tewll him what a jewrk he is." Eli cackles.

i hang my head and pull off...still steaming a bit...but also in shame.

what a monumental task we have as parents.  the fact that these two are watching my every move is a bit scary.  what'd Uncle Ben say to Spiderman, 'With great power comes great responsibility'. yeah, not one of my finer moments as a dad.



10.14.2011

Raising Mia

8:19 AM Posted by nick mucci , 1 comment

Im laying in my bed, this sweet 6lb angel sound asleep on my stomach and I realize...when it comes to raising girls...im clueless.  All my time working with youth and I constantly found myself surrounded with women who could take care of the girls, so i didnt have to.  And now, now ive got one who will call me Daddy. 

Oh crap

I know, ive already got kids, and there is crossover between the genders...but the challenges she'll face are so different.  Im glad Mandy is here to take on most of the things she'll face...but, there are things ill have to show her, do for her. 

Mia, here's the things I wish to teach you...

- your worth is not defined by a dude...not even this big ugly one.
- you can take on the world
- you are not an object, you are marked by the Imago Dei...and if you arent treated as such...daddy will break them ;)
- you can change a tire, use a chainsaw, throw a football
- you dont have to
- the way you love others is what matters
- 'anything they can do you can do...maybe even better
- barbie, the Bratz...they arent real
- you are not 'just a girl'
- mtv, bet, cosmo...they dont define your worth, Christ has already done that
- I love you